Your Dating Username Must Work For You

When you surf different sites in the Internet, you certainly pay attention to nicknames people use for various purposes. Some of them is used to hide their owner's identity, some others, on the contrary, must attract the attention of all people. Every person can use a lot of different nicknames — while working with the serious site your username must be just informative and nothing more. When you enter any entertaining site, you use a joking nickname — it is a place to be jolly and funny. So, think about this question - what do you think when you read someone's dating username? What images you can see in your mind when you are reading it? What association it wakes up? Interesting and unique usernames will almost certainly make an impression on you, so should you try and create an unusual and creative username for yourself? 
That depends upon how it's used by your chosen dating site, and your desire to stand out, but if it's prominently displayed then it's certainly worth giving a moments though to at least. There could be a more detailed and personal look at headlines and usernames in the online dating personal ad builders of various dating sites but this article should help you to get started.
You can imagine, that your internet activity is like another one life you live virtually. As you know, many famous artists, singers, actors and other public people use pseudonyms. Why is so? Using another one name they “separate” two lives they live — one life is their biological life, “just a short dash between date of birth and date of death near your name in encyclopedia” as one poet said. And their second life — is the life on the scene, in the theatre, literature, movie, a creative life, their “real life”. So, all people must know such person by another name. So, name of biological life describes us a usual person who live ordinary life, grey and gloomy. And pseudonym describes us an excellent writer, a wonderful poem, a beautiful movie star. So, as you live your second life in the Internet it is necessary to live it excellently, brightly — and realize there all the goals you could not reach in usual life. So, that was a lyric overture, now we get down to business...
Before you start take a look at your chosen online dating site(s) and see what usernames other dating profiles on the site have and check out the format. Is the user name prominent? Some sites just use first names, some display the headline or tagline most prominently but other display the username.
There is also an important question - to use your birth year or not. You will often see usernames that are created when the user combines their name and year of birth e.g. Jane76 or James1958. There is certainly nothing wrong with this and it may be the safest option if you can’t think of anything else as it certainly won’t offend anyone however it’s not particularly original and you may well find that your particular combination has gone already so don’t be disappointed! Adding other random numbers to your name is an alternative you can try but don’t use your house or phone number for obvious security reasons.
Keeping in mind security reasons, avoid using the same id as your email address. A lot of dating sites will prevent you doing this anyway but it’s good common sense to avoid this so people can’t guess at your email address. Using a dating site does provide you with anonymity and therefore security and it’s best not to release personal details until you are ready to do so.
If you already have a nickname you use for years, should you use it as your username? You can use it but think of the way your readers will interpret it first and make sure you are comfortable with any responses you may get. Something that is amusing, personal and appropriate to your friends and/or family may not be entirely appropriate for strangers! 
You could use an adjective as your username. Whilst your profile shouldn’t be a list of adjectives a carefully chosen one for your username can grab attention. Take a word that people often use to describe you and then look it up in the dictionary or thesaurus to see what alternatives there are. You might find something really interesting or obscure to use. E.G. You might be full of fun and life so you could try using animated, spirited, energetic, enthusiastic, vibrant, exuberant, effervescent, vivacious….etc.  
Maybe add a title or a noun to your chosen username. You could use a title before your username or you could add a noun such as girl, man or dancer. Use with an adjective or your name for maximum impact. E.G. ms.vibrant, missmary effervescent-lady, lady-jane, adventurous-biker or dr.john.
Avoid sexual connotations. Unless you are registering with a specialist introduction site or only looking for sexual liaisons then it’s probably best to avoid anything with a sexual connotation for obvious reasons. For guys anything that involves reference to size, muscles or bad behaviour is usually a turn off and for women reference to shape or even hair colour may lead to generalisations and assumptions which you may prefer to avoid.
Use your favourite character from a book, film or history. If there is a particular character you admire then you could a version in your username. Just think through how different people might relate to that character though and be sure you are happy with the idea. 
Refer to one of your hobbies or passions. If you like rock climbing or run marathons and you talk about it in your profile then a related username gives your reader an immediate reason to read on if it’s a sport or hobby they are particularly interested in. This can be particularly effective when your profile picture is also related to your username for example if you like to run marathons then you crossing a finishing line could be a great profile picture!
Always use the first rule of advertising… Imagine you are your target audience and think about how they will react to your username and then adjust it accordingly. If you find it difficult to put yourself in their shoes then ask one of your friends whose opinion you trust or try checking it out using a search engine and see what you get!
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